The haters are haters because they're insecure with their own bodies and lack of determination and being around someone strong and independent who has gone the length successfully just makes them realize how they haven't and aren't so they hate to make themselves feel better. It's all subconscious of course, but that's the psychology of it anyhow.
I totally hear you about the external validation. I need that a bit too. I think we all view ourselves very differently than the outside world does so it's nice to have a reality check every so often.
And P.S. You do look fantastic. Seriously! I have another 40lbs to lose and if you look that different and as fit as you do after losing that much, it just makes me super excited to see how it looks on me. :)
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Wow, do you ever look terrific! Fantastic!!!! What more can I say?
Ahhhhh-mazing! All your hard work has paid off tenfold!
loves it!
<3 hawt!
The haters are haters because they're insecure with their own bodies and lack of determination and being around someone strong and independent who has gone the length successfully just makes them realize how they haven't and aren't so they hate to make themselves feel better. It's all subconscious of course, but that's the psychology of it anyhow.
I totally hear you about the external validation. I need that a bit too. I think we all view ourselves very differently than the outside world does so it's nice to have a reality check every so often.
And P.S. You do look fantastic. Seriously! I have another 40lbs to lose and if you look that different and as fit as you do after losing that much, it just makes me super excited to see how it looks on me. :)
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